Do you have that one friend who always tries to convince herself that she doesn't want to be in a relationship? She lies to herself claiming she cannot commit herself to a partner. She wants to be an independent woman and doesn't want to give up her freedom. The reality is that everyone has been through the phase of not having someone special in their life. It doesn't mean you don't want someone in your life; you're just having a 'draught'. The term 'draught' means there's absolutely no-one interested in you, there's no-one interesting enough for you to date. No-one is calling you and whispering sweet nothings to you.
No-one can live alone forever you go to parties, weddings, gatherings people come with their partners. Invitations to events or functions are made to you and a partner. When you're not in a relationship, there will be days where you will feel lonely. You can't always have one night stands; everyone deserves to have that special person in their lives. This person will call you, you can confide in them and you know someone has your back no matter what.
You can't spend the rest of your life being single, always being the spare wheel. Loneliness is a sad feeling and sometimes it cause people to do stupid things. Some people because of loneliness they want to break other people's relationships. Loneliness causes people to be envious of other people's belongings. It is such a beautiful feeling knowing you are loved.
And then you get women who only date married men.....how pathetic is that...?
ReplyDeleteSo true shlobo everyone deserves to be loved and knowing you're loved is the best thing ever.
ReplyDeletebeing the spare wheel! Ouch!!! Sounds of a woman with scorn? :-) Zanele has a point. Why do some woman like to date men that are married? (security?) you know where he is when he is not with you?
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